most of the identity shit that gender tumblr has come up with makes me roll my eyes until they detach from their nerves but demisexuality actually makes me kinda sad because of how so many people feel the need to use that label as a defense to gross sex-positive feminism that tries to force them into wanting sex at all times

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"A white man is promoted: He does good work, he deserved it.
A white woman is promoted: Whose dick did she suck?
A man of color is promoted: Oh, great, I guess we have to “fill quotas” now.
A woman of color is promoted: j/k. That never happens."

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If you remove biological femaleness from the definition of “woman” you’re left with stereotypes related to femininity.

If you then try to remove the stereotypes, you’re left with a word that defines absolutely nothing, and is useful to no one.

And making a word that is important to the discussion of systematic oppression into meaningless window dressing is fucking bullshit.

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The only good thing about Fifty Shades movie is that I’ve found a lot of people who hate it just as much as me, and hey, it’s always good to make new friends.

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"trans women are female!!1!!"


listen if you insult cats you are also insulting me

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"Orgasms are very nice but revolutions are better."
- Gail Dines (via isabelledarling)

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"If you can call yourself anything you want then what does our movement mean? This is where identity politics has gotten us; it’s gotten us to this ridiculous point where you can basically partner with every misogynist in the world, but because you’ve got a vagina, you can argue you’re a feminist."
"For many of the young women I have spoken with, life changed dramatically after an appearance on Girls Gone Wild, and some even suffer symptoms similar to post traumatic stress disorder. One woman told me that after she had girl-on-girl sex with a friend, she felt like “a stupid whore and I can’t stop people watching me. All the guys at school watch me and I feel horrible.” Their moment of recklessness has been captured on film, and they feel that it will define them for the rest of their lives, overriding all other parts of their identity. For some of these young women, wherever they go, be it a new school or job, their GGW images dog them. Some drop out of school, others become depressed, and many carry a deep sense of shame. What I found was that their lives had been derailed as plans for school or careers were dropped. Ellen started college with the hope of being a business major but after the tape of her having sex with her friend was shown at a frat party during the first semester, she dropped out of school. In Ellen’s case, as in that of others I interviewed, depression prevented her from even leaving the house. Trisha told me that “my life will never be the same. I had so many plans and look at me now, a dropout with no future.”

As these women struggle to rebuild their lives, Joe Francis gets richer and richer. He has hit on a winning idea and in spite of the many legal cases against him- he has been accused of racketeering, drug trafficking, child pornography, bribery, possession of a controlled substance, and introducing contraband into a Florida jail- his company continues to grow."

Pornland - Gail Dines

More pornographers getting rich off of ruining the lives of young women.

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